Somewhere in life I leaped from 25 to 50 and not until I rested did I find that I am the only frog on this lily pad of life. I don't want to go through this alone and have determined that certain criteria must be met for me to obtain the comfort necessary to be emotionally expressive, kind, loving, and the compassionate woman who would deserve the kind of man that I desire.

So, with that in mind, he can't be a pansy! I am not in need of an overgrown child, emotionally underdeveloped needy man, but rather a provider that is capable of showing me respect not only in person but lacking not when not in my presence. Someone I'd love to loe and dote over, and not for any reason other than because he deserves it. Someone I an hide behind when the world is overwhelming. Someone who does not mind having a woman who does not want to compete for his role and who believes that Christianity is not being a Bible thumper or a preacher man, but a person who leads by example, exerting Christian values and beliefs into daily life.

On the rougher side of me, though, I can admit that i will always be a work in progress and even though I try to use tact, I am very forthcoming and stubborn, I am unable to coddle or lie without being awkward so I don't do it. I expect 100% honesty, like KC football, golf, country music and some other varieties. In the best of all worlds I'd be in an old Victorian home with a sexy man and an English bulldog, and how about bodies of water?

45-55 European man, non-negotiable on the European descent, and Republican point of view are a shoe in.

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